Being so shy
Most people think shyness is just being "quiet." But if you’re actually shy, you know it’s more than that. It’s the racing heart when the teacher calls your name, or the way you replay a three-second conversation in your head for three hours afterward. Here is the truth: Shyness isn't a flaw you need to "fix." It’s just a personality trait that needs a bit of managing. 1. The "Spotlight Effect" is a Lie When you walk into a room, you might feel like everyone is staring at your hair, your clothes, or waiting for you to trip. The Reality: Most people are way too busy worrying about themselves to notice you. Everyone else is the main character in their own movie. You are just a background character in theirs, and that’s actually a huge relief. 2. Use the "5-Second Rule" The longer you think about saying something, the scarier it gets. Your bra...